Last week my friend Lissa asked me how could she develop her own way of shifting her energy so that she can journey to the other side. She recently had had a remarkable experience going
to the other side while on a facilitated journey with a Shaman, and wanted to know how she could develop her personal way of going there on her own .
I feel that this brings up an interesting topic, do we need to be dependent on someone or something to achieve that shift: to journey to the other side, or can we learn to do it on our own? Must we use a drug, a Shaman, a method, or ceremony? These things are all tools, used to shift the mind, which is what you must do to go to the other side. They may get you there, but they can defeat the purpose of it all:attaining personal freedom and power, and keep you dependent on some THING to get there. What if your thing or method isn’t available? Cant get there. What if your Shaman leaves town ? Cant get there. What if the conditions are not just perfect? Cant get there. That’s all wrong. Be careful, the mind/ego wants to fixate on the mechanics of the process, trapping you in its details. Because by nature journeying to the other side is so abstract, the mind seeks to solidify it by focusing on the process.
It is our birthright to journey to other dimensions and realities, but unfortunately we have been raised in a society that denies the existence of anything we can’t see, feel taste or touch..The Third dimension that we live in, the place of the senses, is but a small portion of all the realities which are present in the Universe. Native peoples knew this and used all dimensions much more than does modern society , it was a part of daily life for them. Most of their lives were spent in a state of bliss and joy, because they did not allow the ego /mind to dominate them as we do. And journeying to the other side helped them live the bliss in this third dimensional world.
Our Destiny: To journey to the other side and bring back that big old bucket of bliss.
When you do this, you add incredibly to the bliss factor on the Earth. You are changing the world in a hugely beneficially way,making your personal contribution much more than you can by changing the system .
All you need is yourself , and your phenomenal heart that you always carry with you. You can be naked, you can be anywhere :you can be with people, you can be alone.you can be inside, you can be outdoors. Its like a muscle, you develop it and use it until it comes easily. A little spontaneous practice and you will be there. No special formula needed, just your own self. Just leave your ego/mind behind. As humans, we can get sidetracked and absorbed by the method itself, allowing it to become the focal point. The ego wants to cling to the method and focus on the ritual, the sweatlodge, the ceremony that was intended to be an inspiration, not a trap. These rituals have their place, but they should not be the focal point of your journey. They help you to learn how to journey so that you know what its like to go there, but then its up to you to discover and use your own personal method to get there. You shouldn’t have to wait for an event in time.
Tom Brown calls it finding your hair, your own way of accessing the other side. Carlos Castaneda called it shifting the assemblage point .
There are endless ways to make the shift in awareness.. Focus on the breath is onw way. For many people, water will help them.This could be using the energy of a lake ,stream, waterfall or even a shower. Anything in Nature that you choose to cultivate a relationship with can be used as a springboard to the other side, simply by honoring its essence. The rocks, trees, flowers , mountains , animals, every bit of nature has a spirit, an energy that you can tap into . Our relationship with them by design is set up to help humans explore other realms. You can also use your dreams and the state of awareness that is present between waking and sleep to begin a journey. You can begin with one “hair”, becoming familiar with it, then expanding your abilities to use more and more ways to access the other side. All you realy need to do is to state your intent to discover your own way and then allow it to come to you.
My answer to Lissa was to request that her guides or helpers (whoever she feels assists her ) show her the way to finding and developing her own “hair” or access to the other side.
Enjoy the adventure of finding your way to your own knowledge of the other dimensions, and ride the energy now. Surf’s Up!



My friend Marla brought up the topic of the lack of eligible males for females to date here. Salvador, being the big-hearted Latin fella that he is, agreed with her. There’s just not ANY single men around here, and Marla said, but I can come up with 20 great single women in my head immediately! Where’s all the men? There’s NO men around here! Well, being the newest of the group to Yosemite and all that , I felt compelled to play Devil’s Advocate and to encourage exploration of another perspective on the topic.. Wait a minute….what do you mean? Are there just not any men around? Do the women really outnumber the men by so much? What do you think the ratio of men to women really is here? After several minutes of reflection, Marla said she felt it wasn’t a ratio of women to men issue, but she just couldn’t think of any single men in this area. So I challenged the group in the room to make a list of 20 single men in Yosemite. And we did. Only it took us awhile , because we had to discuss each one’s merits or (demerits as it were ) as we made the list. At first, they wanted to disqualify some of them, but I reminded them the task was to make a list of single men, period, and not just a list of men we liked .After we came up with number 16, we agreed to stop, as the point was clear, there were 20 single men here, just not maybe 20 single men we would consider desirable. I have to confess that there was one guy mentioned that I said I would definitely NOT turn away should he show up at my door! Which leads us to another point of our discussion, how is it that women are always lamenting the lack of good men, when men do not say there’s not enough good women? And, are women kidding themselves when they say that they are available and ready for a serious relationship, yet don’t find an available man or a good man? Are the men just being more honest when they say they don’t want a serious relationship? My point I brought up in all this was that I feel like, if a person desires a relationship and is not in one, it usually is because some part of them does not want to be in one, …….not because of a lack of single datable (hot?) men (or women) . I feel that there is a deeper part of them (their higher self ) that is ultimately in control and that part keeps them out of relationships, for the sake of its own agenda. And the conscious or personality part of themselves that wants the relation can voice its desires, but ultimately it is not in charge of their destiny. Some people could use other names for these parts of us, I have a friend who does hypnotherapy and she calls the parts “the committee” and urges her clients to realize the presence of all their parts and to learn to get them to work together towards a desired goal. I just feel that we have an agenda created by us and for us by Spirit (our higher selves) and that agenda isn’t always a known one. It may be of great need for someone to not be in a relationship even though the personality craves one and all that comes with it. So, once again the topic of personal responsibility rears its ugly head. It’s not numbers of available partners that dictates a persons chances of entering into a relationship, but the agenda of that persons higher self that keeps them either in or out of romantic relationships. Just how can a person know what their higher self’s agenda is? Well, that would be a topic for the next dinner party. Stay tuned. Oh and by the way, the answer to the question “When will I find my love object standing at my door wearing nothing but a big red ribbon?” is, when Spirit ( higher self ) feels it’s the right time for such a gift to arrive! Should I look out for the Fed Ex truck?

